The Weight of Resolutions

On January 1st, 2010, I watched my husband drive away with all of his clothes and a few of his possessions to live in Ohio without us, until we could sell our house in GA. I was depressed, trying to keep a positive outlook, but knowing that it could take months, if not longer, to sell our house and be able to move to Ohio. I made a resolution that day, for the new year, to lose 30 lbs in 2010. I wanted to be healthier, more active, eat better, and most importantly feel better about myself.

I did not succeed.

As of this morning, I weigh TWO lbs less than I did a year ago. Over the course of the year I did lose 10-15 lbs a few times, and then slowly gained it back again. The typical yo-yo dieter--that's me. The only weight loss "program" I've ever had success on is low-carb, because of my insulin resistance and PCOS, counting calories has never worked for me. We joined the YMCA 2 months ago and I'm actually up 5 lbs from when we joined. Not so successful...though I think everyone has a hard time losing weight between Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas.

My husband, ever one to look on the bright side of things (and for that, I truly love him, he buoys me when I feel like sinking, every time) pointed out that at least I didn't gain any weight this year...and he is right. It is a small victory, and one not to be overlooked in an otherwise very successful year. Because with the stresses of living alone with my kids for 3 months, selling a house, moving 900 miles, buying a house, moving in, and then getting settled and starting our lives over, I suppose I could have easily eaten my anxiety away. But I didn't. I could still get on the treadmill today and run 3 miles (though I didn't...I'll admit that I had leftover pie for breakfast, not my finest moment but no one else was going to jump on that bomb;)

This week is the last of 2010. Next year I will have a 3-yr-old and a soon-to-be-5-yr-old. I will turn 31 years old. My husband will turn 37 (yikes--when did we get so old?). I have new resolutions to make and to keep that will have nothing to do with a number on the scale and everything to do with liking myself a little bit more and hating what I see a little bit less. Because, really, what's in a number?

PS--Did you know that if you Google, "How much does..." the automatic search fill-in is, "How much does Snooki weigh?" That makes me sad:( Granted, the girl shouldn't go around telling everyone she weighs 90 lbs when she clearly doesn't, but she is 4'11" and having your weight so publicly scrutinized must be terrible. I wish society would stop putting so much weight (pun intended) on weight. I hate to think of my little girl growing up hating herself because of a number on the scale...

Christmas break!

Aiden had his Christmas Program this morning at preschool. He did so great:) He was so cute and really proud of himself, and he really tried hard to sing all of the songs and do all of the actions. We were proud parents!

Chuck did take a lot of video of the program, but I need to get it uploaded and edited. Here are some pictures I took of the kids before we left for school. No bribing even--can you believe it? They were so excited to wear their new Christmas clothes, lol.

No school for 2.5 weeks--I'm glad we have the Y to occupy us and I am really looking forward to Chuck's birthday this weekend, and then Christmas, and then Chuck is taking a week off work and of course then my little Avie turns 3 on New Year's Eve! Exciting December for the Bailey household!

Once upon a winter...

My last post was all rainbows and smiles and sugar plums. Consider this a fair warning: this will not be one of those posts.

We only lived in GA for 4.5 years. Which means I've lived through 24 winters before we moved, yet somehow I completely forgot about what comes after that first snow. This picture above isn't really from Painesville, it's just symbolic of what all the parking lots look like right now. Aiden can't get over it, he keeps asking me why everything is so dirty and slushy and muddy and gross, lol.

I had also completely forgotten about the salt. Oh the salt. The never-ending salty residue that now lives on every pair of pants I own and is eating away at my new faux-suede boots (in retrospect, a terrible buy). I feel like I can almost taste it in the air, and it's dirty and gritty and just...not my favorite part of winter, lol.

Aiden told me today, when it was particularly windy and particularly cold, "Mom, this winter business is rough!" Somehow, I had blocked it out of my mind. I was glorifying the prettiness of the snow and the fun of winter sports and completely blocked out scraping my windshield and having dirty, salty clothes all winter and forgoing any sense of style in order to just plain stay warm.

But still, I think we do get our reward here. Midwestern summers are something of dreams, where the sun sinks low in the comfortable air with the fireflies darting all around. That is something that I couldn't get over missing when we lived in the south. And while right now I might not be loving winter, it sure does make it feel like Christmas. :)